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A Transgender Kashmiri Artist’s Struggle
By Danish Showkat and Mehendi Mehraj
I grew up learning from an early age that I was not like the others. I didn’t have the words for it then, but I felt it everywhere: in classrooms, on the streets, inside my own home.
Keeping Queer Culture Alive in Wartime Kyiv
By Finbarr Toesland
Members of Kyiv’s queer community are working to keep creativity alive as their city undergoes seismic changes. Queer nightlife and connection are still possible.
Let’s Choose Each Other Again
By Randal C. Smith
No relationship is perfect. No love is untouched by disappointment. No bond survives without negotiation, humility, and repair. What matters isn’t whether love lasts forever.
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Botching the Threesome
By Gregory Walters
Before getting into another relationship—if another should come along—I decided I needed to explore my sexuality, learn a few things, gain confidence, and lose the prude aura.
Writing Our Own Happy Endings
By Ash Perez
My name is Ash Perez, 36, male, a TV writer living in LA. If you have no idea who that is, you may remember me from the mid-2010s, when I was Ashly Perez, the “awkward Asian girl” on BuzzFeed.
A Higher Calling for Felipe
By Michael Varga
I met him at a Paris disco in 1986 when I was on leave from my assignment in Dubai. Over the next seven years we didn’t see each other often, but we got together whenever we could.













